Unrealistic expectations in relationships often include expecting a partner to fix your life. Here’s why that never works.

One of the most damaging unrealistic expectations in relationships sounds something like this:

“My life is a disaster. I’m unattractive, unsuccessful, broke — but when I find my perfect match, everything will fall into place and I’ll finally be happy.”

Or, as phrased in the original list that inspired this mini-series:
“I want a man who makes me happy and lifts me up.”

How many of us have entertained this belief at some point? And more importantly — is it realistic?

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