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  • The NLP goal-setting: How to set goals that actually work


    Discover how NLP goal setting goes beyond SMART goals and why using positive language can dramatically improve motivation and success.

    • Specific
    • Measurable
    • Authentic (often referred to as Attainable)
    • Realistic
    • Time-bound

    While SMART goals are helpful, the aim of this article is to introduce a slightly adjusted NLP goal-setting technique. Although less well known, it often creates far greater and more sustainable results — because this is where real NLP begins.

    Let me explain why.

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  • The Zeus (Jupiter) Archetype – Chief deity who holds strong power


    Chief deity in the Greek Pantheon between the 12 Olympian gods. God of the Sky, the Thunderer.

    Zeus — known as Jupiter in Roman mythology — is the supreme ruler of Greek mythology. From the heights of Mount Olympus, he governs both gods and humans, embodying authority, leadership, and power. While immensely influential, Zeus is not omnipotent; rather than constant direct intervention, he often exercises control from a distance, reinforcing hierarchy and order.

    Mythological Context

    Zeus is the youngest son of Cronus and Rhea. To prevent a prophecy that one of his children would overthrow him, Cronus swallowed each newborn — except Zeus, who was hidden by Rhea. Zeus later returned, led a successful rebellion against the Titans, and claimed dominion over the sky.

    His reign is marked by alliances, authority, and numerous relationships with goddesses and mortal women, producing many offspring. These unions strengthened his influence and extended his legacy throughout mythology — a key theme of the Zeus archetype.

    In astrology, Jupiter is one of the most significant planets in the natal chart. Visible to the naked eye, it was known and revered by ancient astronomers and astrologers. Jupiter symbolizes expansion, opportunity, faith, and growth.

    There is also an asteroid named Zeus (5731), discovered in 1988. When both a planet and an asteroid share the same archetypal name, astrologers distinguish their meaning:

    • Jupiter represents the higher, expansive, constructive expression of the archetype
    • Asteroid Zeus reflects the human, shadow, and ego-driven expression

    The asteroid is considered only when it is strongly placed or prominently activated in the chart.

    Jupiter (Zeus) in astrology

    Jupiter is the largest planet in the solar system. Being the largest planet we associate expansion, growth with it.

    Jupiter represents in the natal chart:

    • Lucky chance, business opportunities: we feel we are lucky in that area of life in which house our Jupiter is.
    • Wealth, security, expansion
    • Higher learning, influencing, philosophical believes 
    • Wisdom, seeing the big picture while not getting lost in the details
    • Faith in the future               

    Asteroid Zeus:

    • The seducer, the cheeky one – usually with a prominent Zeus the individual has a lot of lovers, maybe more marriages. It doesn’t mean that the person is a good lover. He enjoys more of the part of concurring the woman rather wooing her after he feels he reached his goal.
    • Arrogance – he can be strong headed and thinking that only his ways are working. He forces his will to his environment. Let it be within the family, at work or at his own business.
    • Rigid: he doesn’t want to change the status quo.
    • The person who is craving power and willing to get it. Even if he has to overstep other people to achieve his goal

    Zeus archetype in psychology

    • The king, the ruler: this archetype is a natural leader due to his ambitions and talent. He is inspired by the power above his own territory, let that territory be only a family, a business or a country.
    • Determined/ definite moves: he has very good view on the big picture but still the small details are not neglected by him. When he wants to get something he focuses on it and without missing a beat he gets it even at the cost of ruining other people
    • Master of alliances (both through business and through marriages): he is very much capable to work together with other powerful men. He is excelling at summits, agreeing alliances, and setting boundaries as well as negotiating alliances that is  beneficial for each party. He expects from the others to participate in the negotiations pursuing their own well understood interest and he acts exactly like that. For him marriage is more an alliance that helps him build his empire than an act of love.
    • The charmer / seducer: once he decides who he would like to get he will do everything to get close to the woman in question.
    • The “father” in the sky: he has strong desire to have kids as he sees them the continuation of his empire. He is a mentor type of father, but he expects that the children acts according to his will.

    How Zeus comes out in every day life in different life stages

    Childhood and Early Years

    A Zeus child reveals himself very early. He is strong-willed, decisive, and determined to assert control over his environment. This is the child who says “no” instinctively—not as rebellion, but as a declaration of autonomy. He wants to test limits, establish authority, and experience himself as the one who decides.

    From a young age, he begins to build his own miniature world in which he is the leader. Power dynamics matter to him, and he instinctively seeks situations where he can exercise influence. The most effective way to guide a Zeus child is not through force, but by offering structured choices—allowing him to feel in control while still operating within boundaries.

    Adolescence and Young Adulthood

    As a teenager, the Zeus archetype naturally gravitates toward leadership roles. He is often the captain of a sports team, the center of a social group, or surrounded by loyal followers who form his “court.” Popularity and hierarchy become important, and he tends to associate with those who reinforce his status.

    Romantic relationships are often approached as conquests rather than emotional connections. He seeks partners who enhance his image and position. During this stage, Zeus begins to understand hierarchy more consciously—accepting the world as it is, while simultaneously plotting how to secure his place at the top.

    Adulthood and Professional Life

    In the workplace, Zeus rarely sees himself as subordinate for long. He quickly believes he could perform better than those above him and instinctively analyzes systems, structures, and strategies. Leadership comes naturally to him, and he does not require instruction on how to take charge, work hard, or identify opportunities.

    He is emotionally detached in professional settings and expects the same from others, which can make him appear cold or authoritarian. He is not easily distracted by personal matters and views work as a means to build his empire—whether that is a business, a leadership position, or a legacy within an organization.

    Everything in his life becomes subordinate to this long-term goal. Marriage, when it occurs, is often approached as a strategic alliance rather than a romantic bond. It serves a purpose in supporting his ambitions rather than fulfilling emotional needs.

    Family and Fatherhood

    Zeus desires children as an extension of his legacy. He sees them as the continuation of what he has built. As a father, he often takes on a mentoring role rather than an emotionally nurturing one. He teaches through expectation, discipline, and example.

    However, he expects obedience and alignment with his values. The family system operates according to his rules, and emotional closeness may be limited. Children raised under a dominant Zeus father often experience structure, security, and guidance—but may also perceive emotional distance and rigidity.

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  • Seeing the Big Picture: How perspective helps you solve life’s challenges


    Learn how visualising the bigger picture — just like solving a puzzle — can help you break patterns, gain clarity, and approach life’s challenges with intention and awareness.

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      Rachel Maycock

      Thanks for sharing these insights and ideas… it’s so powerful to change perspectives and think about taking a new approach.

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  • What puzzles can teach us about life: How changing perspective helps you get unstuck


    Feeling stuck in life or relationships? Discover how changing perspective — inspired by puzzles — can unlock clarity, growth, and solutions.

    One of my favourite pastimes is doing puzzles — and the more complicated they are, the more I enjoy them. Over the years, many people have asked me how I manage to complete them so quickly. The answer is surprisingly simple.

    I rely on two core principles:

    1. I change my perspective whenever I feel stuck.
    2. I check the “instruction” — the small reference image that shows the full picture I’m working towards.

    Recently, I realised how powerfully these same principles apply to everyday life and problem-solving — often multiple times a day.

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  • Unrealistic expectations in relationships (Part 2):


    Why People Don’t Change for Love

    Unrealistic expectations in relationships often begin with long wish lists — and almost always end in disappointment. When we search for a partner while carrying an extensive checklist, failure is nearly guaranteed.

    Instead, we need to look inward and identify the two or three qualities that are truly essential to us. These core values should be present from the very beginning. No one is perfect — but it is enough if your partner is perfect for you.

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      Very, very true, Reka! Thank you for sharing! People rarely change for someone else or for something outside themselves. It has to be their inner need. Partnerships will never be perfect and there always comes the point of choice if the differences are something we could live with. If the answer is yes, then we just accept the partner as they are and stop trying to fix them. Personally, I found this part most difficult but also most liberating when I resorted into the acceptance.

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  • 2026: New Year, New Me? Or just a new date on the calendar?


    Why most New Year’s resolutions fail

    Every January, many of us start the year with the familiar ritual: the New Year’s resolution list.

    Eat healthier.
    Go to the gym regularly.
    Change habits.
    Become a “new me.”

    And it prompted this post when I recently tried to sign up for a Body Pump class at my gym. Not only was the class full — even the waiting list was full. When I mentioned it to Andrew, he simply smiled and said:
    “It’s January. Everyone’s resolution is to go to the gym.”

    And that’s when it hit me.

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  • I want a man: Unrealistic expectations in relationships


    When “Wanting a Man, Not a Baby” backfires

    Unrealistic expectations in relationships are one of the most common — and least discussed — reasons why pair-bonding can feel frustrating, disappointing, or emotionally draining.

    I want a man, not a baby.

    I once came across this sentence at the end of a long list written by a woman in her late thirties. The list was titled something like “The Type of Man I Want”. While I no longer remember most of the items, that final statement stayed with me.

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  • How to set goals in a positive way


    Stopping self-sabotage your goal by simply reframing your mindset

    I have decided to get rid of my “granny/bingo arms”, as I call them. Most women will know what I am talking about. Anyway, I told myself that it can’t go on like this as I don’t like photos of myself. Andrew doesn’t see what I am talking about when I am bitching about the quality of my arms. But it seems I am the lucky one here as my partner’s eyesight is not that good anymore, so he doesn’t see things as they are. He is even talking about the possibility of needing glasses soon. And when he gets his glasses, he will see very well what the issue is with my arms. So, I had better act before that happens. 

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  • Suspended in mid-air: What happens after the leap of faith


    I thought taking a leap of faith would feel like flying… but instead, I found myself floating in mid-air. Here’s what I learned in the “in-between” phase — and why I’d still choose the leap again.

    Because the “in-between” is part of the journey.

    Back then, I was preparing to leave my “cozy” corporate bubble and step into a world where I could build something of my own. I took courses, practiced my new profession, and did all the “right” things to get ready. On paper, I looked prepared. But deep down, something still felt… unfinished.

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  • Our very first yoga (re-)treat–what a success!


    Our First Mini Yoga Retreat 

    This retreat will always be special—it was the very first mini yoga retreat I helped organize and lead with two friends.

    With a shared love for yoga, wellbeing, and meaningful connection, we dreamed of creating a space where people could slow down and simply be. Being Hungarian, hosting it in Hungary felt natural, and once we found a beautiful private estate near Lake Balaton, the vision came to life.

    October turned out to be the perfect timing. Mild autumn weather, and a peaceful villa at the foot of Csobánc Hill welcomed us to a few unforgettable days. We practiced yoga, prepared breakfast together, went hiking, enjoyed delicious dinners, and shared long conversations late into the night—yet somehow still showed up on our mats each morning.

    It was grounding, energizing, and full of joy. An experience that reminded us why we want to keep creating these retreats.

    We’re already planning the next one in 2026. Dates and details coming soon—stay tuned, and we hope to see you there. 

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